Some people don’t just notice emotions — they absorb them.
If you’re the steady one: at work, in your family, or among friends, your nervous system is always scanning for tension. You notice every shift, brace for every flicker, and often take on stress that isn’t yours. Over time, this constant readiness becomes exhausting. You may function well on the outside, but inside, your body and mind are always “on alert.”
Why Work With Me
Practical therapy for overextended adults
Therapy with me focuses on your nervous system as much as your thoughts. Insight alone isn’t enough — real change happens when your body can finally relax. Together, we:
Identify patterns that keep you overextended
Build steadier ways of relating to work, relationships, and yourself
Practice pacing, boundaries, and nervous system regulation
I also bring lived experience to this work. Living with a chronic neurological condition has taught me how to respect limits and work with my body, not override it. That perspective shapes my approach — sustainable change over pushing past capacity.
Cultural Pressures & Overfunctioning
High achievement shouldn’t cost your health
Many high-achieving adults internalize the belief that worth equals productivity and that rest must be earned. Therapy can be a place to question those assumptions and define success in a way your nervous system can actually sustain.
What You Can Expect
Therapy that meets you where you are
EMDR and evidence-based therapy tailored to your needs
Tools for managing stress, overextension, and emotional absorption
A calm, regulated space to explore patterns and build healthier routines
Telehealth sessions for adults across California
Who I Work With
Therapy for the overextended and overstimulated
I help high-functioning adults who are exhausted from carrying more than their share. You’re capable and empathetic, but your nervous system has been on overdrive. Together, we create strategies that allow you to:
Stay connected without overloading
Care without bracing
Feel grounded while maintaining your empathy and competence
You Don’t Have to Carry It All Alone
You deserve to feel steadier
If this resonates, I invite you to reach out. Therapy can be the space where you slow down, reclaim your energy, and finally feel steadier — without giving up your compassion or capability.
Explore our services
My work focuses on helping people who absorb others’ stress learn how to stay connected without carrying what isn’t theirs. If you’re highly perceptive, emotionally attuned, or used to being the steady one, your nervous system may be stuck in a constant state of monitoring and bracing.
In therapy, we work directly with these patterns. You’ll learn how your body learned to take on tension, how that shows up in your relationships and daily life, and how to interrupt it in real time. The goal isn’t to become less caring — it’s to respond without over-functioning or collapsing.
I offer EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), a powerful, evidence-based therapy that helps individuals process and heal from traumatic experiences, anxiety, and emotional distress.
I offer telehealth therapy, professional, compassionate mental health care that is 100% online, so you can access support wherever you are, without the commute, the waiting room, or the stress.
Whether you’re at home, on a break at work, or living in a remote area, quality therapy is just a click away.
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